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Saturday, May 9, 2009 @ 9:43 AM

Imperfections and love
It suddenly spurs me to blog early in the morning about this topic.I had been thinking yesterday night on how to write a complete biography on this.Having gone through certain ups and downs in life,imperfections and love will be the first topic to start of with.Yeah,one may say:I love him/her,it's true!!!.In fact,it's not.Love does not require the sayings,the promises and the vows/swears.It is something,that is understood by both prties in this relationship.Love does not need too much of sacrifices for each other,causing each other to be unhappy about this.Love is not about suffering.Yes,some sacrifices are a must but not all the time:)Mutual trust,is the emphasis.I do not know whether is this the case for everybody,but mostly everybody agreed.Yupp,love,this topic is really difficult to start and end.I have been through it and the feeling is sucky!!!Loving someone so badly but he does not appreciate and in terms,did things to hurt me back!!!HOW IN THE WORLD MUST HE DO THAT?!Yes,I really hated him to the core for doing so and also I did not understand WHY.Until now,I had only understood half of the mystery.For him,he had got a girlfriend and was together happily.In his eyes,I may be a thorn and that is perhaps why he did that.Foe us now,we remained our status as normal friends.He was OFF MY MIND some time ago.It was tough to forget him completely as there will always be remains left.Right?But,if I do not forget,I will be the one suffering,not him,not anybody!So,to all that been hurt in relationships,LET IT GO will be a better idea for both of you and if you really love him/her dearly,the more you should let him/him go to find his/her happiness.Don't stick to him/her.It'll be a form of sadness and regret for both of you in he near future.Afetr sharing so much of love,imperfections should cut down a bit.Yes,mant try to be as perfect as can be.But,is that possible?HUMANS=BEINGS!We'r beings how to perfect?We'll commit mistakes somehow or rather right?HAHAHA,emphasis is many little little imperfections make up perfection.Yes,why not stop finding perfection and start looking for small imperfections to perfect your life???Being perfect is difficult,you know.Many things can be made better/positive if you had the ability to twist the situation around and use different method to resolve it.It is also beneficial if things are made better,rather than using your brains and finally knowing that ll your methods are useless?!Got to stop here,have to brush my teeth and eat breakfast;)